denmother
denmother
you are the:
the denmother
This quiz is designed to help you discover how you shine brightest in your feminine leadership — your unique way of showing up and owning your power. I call this your Simaya — your Inner Lioness Light — the energy that fuels your voice, presence, and confidence.
your simaya shines brightest when you create stability and share your hard-earned wisdom.
This report will help you spot what dims your light and guide you to protect and embrace your simaya — so you can lead unapologetically, with strength and clarity.
"You lead with wisdom, care, and a quiet authority that makes others feel deeply supported."
As the Denmother, you embody leadership that is nurturing yet discerning. You make others feel held and valued while keeping your vision aligned with integrity and purpose.
But when survival mode creeps in, you can dim your light by taking on too much responsibility, overthinking, or holding yourself back in fear of making mistakes.
the denmother
your flame & ray
Your Simaya shines through two powerful leadership energies: your flame & ray. Together, they shape how you lead, love, and move through the world.
your flame: hearth
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Your Flame is the core of your Simaya — your inner Lioness Light — and it shows how you naturally lead and hold power. It’s your strongest, most instinctive energy: the way you light the path for others and claim your space.
You’re part of the Hearth Tribe — steady, loyal, and deeply committed to the people and values you care about. Your Hearth Flame creates a sense of safety and belonging for everyone around you. At your best, you’re the grounding force others lean on — calm, trustworthy, and always showing up. But when survival mode takes over, you can end up carrying too much for others and forgetting to tend your own flame.
(Your Flame is influenced by your Ray so read more about your Ray to dive even deeper into your unique leadership energy)
Your ray: sage
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Your Ray is how that inner fire shines outward — the supporting quality that shapes and colors the way others experience your leadership. It complements your Flame, bringing dimension and depth to your light.
Your Sage Ray helps you pause, reflect, and make decisions from a place of wisdom rather than impulse. Even if you’re more action-driven, this ray gives you the ability to zoom out, see the big picture, and lead with clarity and purpose.
embrace all of your inner denmother
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✅ Creates stability others can count on
✅ Brings wisdom and perspective to every decision
✅ Leads with care while upholding high standards
✅ Anticipates challenges and plans accordingly
✅ Grounds her team and business in integrity -
Your Blind Spots
⚠️ Taking on others’ burdens as your own
⚠️ Overanalyzing and getting stuck in indecision
⚠️ Staying small to avoid criticism or risk
⚠️ Being overly cautious or slow to act -
❌ Carrying too much responsibility for others
❌ Feeling like no one sees or appreciates your wisdom
❌ Being rushed into decisions without reflection
❌ Criticism or conflict that feels personal -
🔥 Being trusted as the steady, reliable guide
🔥 Creating systems and structures that feel safe and aligned
🔥 Offering wisdom that makes a difference
🔥 Leading with integrity and earning deep respect
🔥 Helping others feel supported and secure
in survival mode
When survival mode kicks in, it’s harder to access your inner light — and your nervous system feels it.
You may feel heavy, stuck, and overwhelmed by responsibility. Your breath becomes shallow and you carry tension through your hips, shoulders, and jaw as you brace yourself against imagined mistakes or failure.
In your body, watch for:
🔷 Slumped posture and tight shoulders
🔷 Jaw clenching and shallow breathing
🔷 Heavy hips or lower back pain
🔷 Overthinking and mental fatigue
power moves
power moves
your power move: put down the weight
Your leadership shines brightest when you release what isn’t yours to carry. Take one intentional step today to let go of a burden — delegate it, decline it, or simply decide it’s not yours. When you unburden yourself, your wisdom and calm presence become even more magnetic.
tend to your inner light
"I trust myself to lead with wisdom — and I release what isn’t mine to hold."
In The Lioness Den, Somara helps you release the weight of over-responsibility and come back to clarity, strength, and flow.
🌱 Fascia flows that release hips, shoulders, and jaw tension.
🌱 Breathwork to deepen and reset your nervous system.
🌱 Gentle movement to loosen fear and restore flow.
🌱 Journaling prompts: What responsibilities aren’t mine to carry? Where do I need to trust myself more?
When you tune into your body and nervous system, your Simaya steadies and glows.
enter the den
When you’re ready to embody your calm, grounded, and wise leadership fully — and stop hiding behind responsibility and fear — The Lioness Den is where you’ll find your next evolution. Somara will help you shed the weight and lead as the powerful Denmother you are.