matriarch

matriarch

you are the:

the matriarch

This quiz is designed to help you discover how you shine brightest in your feminine leadership — your unique way of showing up and owning your power. I call this your Simaya — your Inner Lioness Light — the energy that fuels your voice, presence, and confidence.

you shine brightest when you’re in charge — with a clear plan, high expectations, and a deep sense of responsibility for those who depend on you.

This report will help you spot what dims your light and guide you to protect and embrace your simaya — so you can lead unapologetically, with strength and clarity.

As the Matriarch, your leadership is commanding yet intentional, blending bold, decisive action with wisdom and thoughtfulness. You don’t just lead for the sake of power — you lead to protect, guide, and elevate those around you.

But in survival mode, your Simaya — your inner Lioness Light — can dim under the weight of pressure. You grip tighter, over-control, and get stuck in perfectionism. You may find yourself micromanaging, carrying everyone else’s responsibilities, and feeling resentful or isolated as a result.

the matriarch

your flame & ray

Your Simaya shines through two powerful leadership energies: your flame & ray. Together, they shape how you lead, love, and move through the world.

your flame: fierce

  • You’re part of the Fierce Tribe — born to blaze trails, protect what matters, and say the thing no one else is brave enough to say. Your Fierce Flame gives you unshakable courage and boldness, helping you take charge even when others hesitate.

    At your best, you lead with confidence and clarity, inspiring others to rise with you because they trust your strength. But that same fire can burn you out if you don’t allow yourself to rest and trust your pride.

    (Your Flame is influenced by your Ray so read more about your Ray to dive even deeper into your unique leadership energy)

Your ray: sage

  • Your Ray is how that inner fire shines outward — the supporting quality that shapes and colors the way others experience your leadership. It complements your Flame, bringing dimension and depth to your light.

    Your Sage Ray helps you pause, reflect, and make decisions from a place of wisdom rather than impulse. Even if you’re more action-driven, this ray gives you the ability to zoom out, see the big picture, and lead with clarity and purpose.

embrace all of your inner matriarch

  • ✅ Decisive and dependable under pressure
    ✅ Holds high standards for yourself and your pride
    ✅ Balances action with thoughtfulness and strategy
    ✅ Protects and advocates fiercely for those you lead

  • Your Blind Spots

    ⚠️ You can overcontrol and struggle to delegate
    ⚠️ You take on too much, believing no one else can meet your standards
    ⚠️ You can come across as rigid or intimidating when stressed
    ⚠️ You may forget to celebrate progress in pursuit of perfection

  • ❌ Micromanaging and controlling everything
    ❌ Resentment from overcommitment
    ❌ Holding others to impossible standards
    ❌ Ignoring your own needs to “keep it all together”

  • 🔥 Knowing exactly who owns what — clear roles and responsibilities
    🔥 A team you can trust to rise to your standards
    🔥 Opportunities to mentor and guide others toward their potential
    🔥 Feeling respected, seen, and valued for your expertise
    🔥 Taking bold, decisive action and watching real progress unfold

in survival mode

When survival mode kicks in, it’s harder to access your inner light — and your nervous system lets you know.

You may feel tense, rigid, and mentally overloaded, gripping tightly to control and feeling like no one else can meet your standards. Physical tension builds in your shoulders, chest, and jaw, your breath becomes shallow, and your body feels heavy under the weight of responsibility. This overcontrolled state clouds your wisdom and dims your powerful presence.

In your body, watch for:

🔷 Shoulder and neck tension
🔷 Jaw clenching and chest tightness
🔷 Shallow, constricted breathing
🔷 A heavy, weighed-down feeling or emotional withdrawal

power moves

power moves

your power move: choose trust

Delegate something — even if it feels uncomfortable — and give others the chance to rise. Letting go of just 10% of what you’re gripping creates space for you to lead with more ease, grace, and authority.

tend to your inner light

“I lead with strength and wisdom — and I trust others to rise with me.”

In The Lioness Den, Somara helps you soften your grip, release tension, and open your body to trust and ease — so you can lead with both strength and grace.

🌱 Fascia flows and heart-opening stretches to release chest, shoulders, and jaw.
🌱 Breathwork to slow your nervous system and let go of overcontrol.
🌱 Grounded, intentional movement to reconnect with your authority.
🌱 Journaling prompts: Where can I let go and allow others to step up?

When you tune into your body and nervous system, your Simaya glows

enter the den

✨Your Simaya doesn’t shine brighter by accident — it takes tending, practice, and support. You don’t have to do it alone. The Lioness Den is where women like you come to reignite their light, reclaim their power, and practice unapologetic leadership in sisterhood. You belong there. Come take your seat in the circle.✨